that is what i needed - a little positive reinforcement.
for the smiles and laughs.
and for clarification, it was 'your done today/terminated'
as for reason(s): when i spoke w/ the majority owner, the reason i told him of what my store manager told me was the reason was news to him and he had no comment. his policy is and i quote "i don't have to give a reason, what is done is done". my answer to him was 'wow' and i wanted to say he was a jackass....so w/ that i left and called the other owner who was at our other store and wanted to go see him face to face and get his take. his response was and i quote "we did not see any leadership/management qualities out of you". my response was again "wow, at 37 yrs. old i have never been terminated and every job i've had i worked from the basement up to management and eventually to owning my own business." he really did not have a come back - no, wait he did. he said i should have asked for more responsibility, all i did was work the counter/answer phone.
Jeez, i was closing the store every damn nite i was there (counting $$, had a key for the front door and a security lock code, performing month end closes the way he wanted me to.....
i told him that i had no respect from the other workers because they ALWAYS went to the other guy i had been working w/ who has been there for 19 years. how am i to get respect when i am working w/ a guy who has that seniority...
i told him that. i also told him that he as the owner should have told his employees that I was in charge when he or store mgr. was not there.... again, he had no response.
TG: and i did NOT screw the bosses wife..no spank u
WD: you are correct, my perception of them is totally shot. they are not nice people to work for.
this goes back to the end of Oct. when i was told my hours would be cut and not just my hours - everyones. well guess what, i went from over 40/week to 2-3/wk to 1-2/wk. NO ONE elses hours got cut. i did see some writing on the wall but i did NOT expect this, because i did not think they were THAT type of employer. i was used as a sucker. they used me and they know it. i had requested some days off for my bday and was called asking that i work - because the boss was in vegas for the ARA convention and wouldn't you know it the 'store manager took advantage of boss being gone and called me in early 2-4 days, asked me to come in on my 1 day off that week and left early on 2-3 days...what an idiot i was...
man, i am done rambling, i need to get a good nites sleep and put this behind me.
p.s.
by the way, should i return his xmas gifts i won at the xmas party? i want too, wife wants to keep the items...