"borrowed" usually
What would you do?
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"borrowed" usually
HeavyAssault
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I would suggest you file a restraining order as well to keep him clear of your family and home. I don't know the details of how they work but if it's written as only her and him or at their home address would it apply if she is at your house?
iracemine
black and tan
lots of work for you and her. get all the forms filled out. they work great! this wasn't the first time this has happened and it wont be the last. get the law to work for you, but yes you do have to go though a bunch of bs. most court houses will have a DV lady there to help her get this taken care of.
bail on the house. get a appt. single moms are pretty common. she will be happier and safer. and most importantly she will have a much much better role model for your grandson, you.
stay away from him. all of you. dont count on income. dont ever think of him. "it" was just a doner. be the best shepherd you can be and lead your kids in the right direction. turn the cheek and god will take care of the rest.
bail on the house. get a appt. single moms are pretty common. she will be happier and safer. and most importantly she will have a much much better role model for your grandson, you.
stay away from him. all of you. dont count on income. dont ever think of him. "it" was just a doner. be the best shepherd you can be and lead your kids in the right direction. turn the cheek and god will take care of the rest.
dpantazis
#12
x4!
Tail_Gunner
CRJ & ERJ A&P Mech.
We convinced our daughter to come home with the grandson this week end.
We're going to talk to her and try to point out the pros of moving back home with us. Keeping her baby in mind and remembering that he is #1, it would be the best move. She has no support in the way of family or close friends where she is now. But we can provide help here with a variety of troubles when they occur that we cannot do if she is still living there. Car breakdowns, mom too sick to care for baby, cheap daycare, free rent. And most of all, a "positive male role model".
I'll have him sucking jello through a soda straw and shooting the paper straw wrappers at momma in no time.
We're going to talk to her and try to point out the pros of moving back home with us. Keeping her baby in mind and remembering that he is #1, it would be the best move. She has no support in the way of family or close friends where she is now. But we can provide help here with a variety of troubles when they occur that we cannot do if she is still living there. Car breakdowns, mom too sick to care for baby, cheap daycare, free rent. And most of all, a "positive male role model".
I'll have him sucking jello through a soda straw and shooting the paper straw wrappers at momma in no time.
strokepower
Stroke=Power
I'll have him sucking jello through a soda straw and shooting the paper straw wrappers at momma in no time.
that is what gpa is supposed to do
im glad she is coming home for the weekend.. good luck with the whole situation.. you are already on the right path by her coming home to be around you...
that is what gpa is supposed to do
im glad she is coming home for the weekend.. good luck with the whole situation.. you are already on the right path by her coming home to be around you...
get 'em all hepped up on sugar & carbos & then hand 'em back off to the 'rents...
strokepower
Stroke=Power
get 'em all hepped up on sugar & carbos & then hand 'em back off to the 'rents...
I have a lil cousin that loves tractor/diesel truck pulls and when i get the chance me and my gf take him and he gets whatever he wants when he is with his cuz hahah....
jestersv
7.3 addict
well, I don't have much to add to above advice (all good) except good luck with all this and keep talkin with the misses having an adult child (and baby) move in can/will be stressful, probably would be a good idea for all involved to sit down and set some ground rules (ie: baby sitting comes to mind) even with the situation at hand. the independence that your daughter had (and you and the misses) can cause problems when coming home. hope that helps TG. Steve
Tail_Gunner
CRJ & ERJ A&P Mech.
I don't see how we would have too many problems. My daughter is a very down to earth gal who isn't into partying every night. I don't think I have ever seen a gal who is better momma than she is.
The funny thing about kids is when they are little, they want to spend every waking minute with mom & dad.
When they start to get to the 10 to 12 year range, hanging with mom & dad isn't so cool anymore and they start to think of parents as an embarassment. That stage lasts until about they get to 21 to 25 years old.
When they reach that point, they realize "Ya know, mom & dad weren't really so bad after all!!" "Actually, they're wise, experienced, kinda cool and right more often than they're not."
That last stage is where two of our three kids are at now, including the daughter having the "boyfriend problems. I think we're actually closer to her now than when she was still in high school and living at home.