I agree that if you are getting flashed on a regular basis you need to adjust your headlights as you want the oncoming traffic to be able to see
Once you get that done done check out the Hella line of lights. I have run Hella, KC, Light Force, PIAA and a few others(with 24 hours of darkness in the winter up here we need lights). I have been the happiest with the Hellas as they are constructed a little better and usually have a better mount that will eliminate any vibration. The Light Force lights are the worse for a mounting system as there flimsy and shake on rough roads. The KC's are OK but the rivets on the mount will loosen up in time. The Piaa's are good but the housings are generally too small for the wattage of the bulb causing too much heat which results in premature bulb failure. I am currently running a set of 9" Hella Rally 4000 HID lights and they work great. At $1300 a set they may not be what you are looking for but Hella makes lights of all sizes and prices.
Performance Lighting from Hella