I realize mine is only a 6.4, but I have a little personal experience recently with a drop in K&N as I too did not exactly believe the hype. I bought one a month ago and experimented quite a bit. What I found was that a K&N drop in filter indeed did allow for too much air flow and caused my truck to run too rich. How I first noticed the issue was that my truck started to go into REGEN cycle rather excessively plus the infamous REGEN smoke cloud.
I thought at first that maybe I had gotten a bad batch of diesel as i had just filled up. SO after dumping the fuel and adding a cetane booster and new fuel to the tank, it kept doing it. I was almost starting to think that maybe something serious was going on, but after doing research about causes about the potential causes of this problem to no avail, I decided to research the filters as that's the only thing I had changed and found that a similiar issue did in fact occur.
So then I experimented a bit. I swapped back the stock filter and the REGENS immediately stopped. I switched back to the K&N after 300 miles. About a 100 miles later it did it again. I drove it like the for 50 miles to have it REGEN on me thrice and switched back to the stock to have it stop again.
I wish I had the means to datalog what the ECU was seeing as I do in my Evo, but I have an idea of what's going on. The K&N does indeed allow for significantly more air flow. However, I believe it allows for way more than the MAF is scaled too handle causing the truck to run way too rich. I've heard of this being a potential issue with a drop in filter by auto manufacturers before, but have never experienced it first hand until I tried it on my 6.4 (which is also the second truck I have ever owned). I did not notice an excess of dirt or sand passing through the filter, but in my defense did not really run it long enough or in an environment that would allow for that "per se".
Now let me make this clear. I am not bashing K&N by any means. I've used their filters on a few of my cars with great success and have no reason to not. In fact, I'm currently running one on my 2013 SHO with ZERO issues. What I am saying is that just dropping in a K&N filter on these platforms is too much for these trucks by themselves WITHOUT MAF RESCALING through ecu tuning. Like with adding a DPF delete, you have to tune for them. However, I do agree like the masses that this wouldn't be the case if the K&N filter was made to be more restrictive in airflow than in it's current form.