First off, Welcome.
Second, for your first post, you had to open a can of worms huh???
This is a question where you will not get a definitive answer, some prefer one way, others another, kinda like Rhino Liner versus Line-X.
That being said, I prefer "Pre-Turbo" (in exhaust manifold), that's where both of mine are. The issue with "Post-Turbo", (downpipe), is you really have no idea just how hot the exhaust really is that is entering the Turbo. You can assume or interpolate, but you really have no idea. And that's where you could get in trouble if you tow alot. (JMHO).
I'm sure more will pipe in, but that's my opinion.
Again,
Welcome to the site.
Barrett