I finally got sick of farting around with it in the mornings... took my test light and was probing the GPR... noticed that I had no power OUT of the relay when energized... thought, ok.. relays fail...
Called Ford and had them bring a new relay over, went to unbolt the old one, got to the output side of the high-amp coil.. touched a wrench to the nut and was holding the cable in my hand... the bakelite had failed and the terminal fell out of the GPR...
that explains why it would only goof off on humid days... darn thing was getting water inside it...
here's a picture of it...
what would happen, is when you would put a test light against the terminal itself, to check for power, I was actually pushing down on the terminal and it was making contact... when I would check for power at the glow plugs themselves, there wasn't any.
I was taking off the heavy cable to do a continuity test on it, and when I touched the wrench on the nut, the whole caboodle came apart...
Moral of the Story is: take apart your connections to check power THROUGH a device...